20th Anniversary Stories: Growing up with Roman Music Therapy Services: Josh’s Story

As we enter our 20th year at Roman Music Therapy Services (RMTS), we’re pausing to celebrate the communities we’ve had the privilege of growing alongside. To mark this milestone, we’re sharing stories that reflect the impact of music therapy with the people and agencies we serve.

Transformative Power of Music

Eighteen years ago, Josh was introduced to Roman Music Therapy Services through a music therapy group at EMARC, now Communitas. Josh was six years old, and his mom, Judy, was looking for him to develop expressive language skills, something he did not have at that point.

I was not expecting it to be so effective,” Judy shared.  

Josh and Judy both describe his journey with music therapy as transformativeJosh began working with our founder, Meredith Pizzi. Josh described her as “the original music therapist, a funny, but fitting description when thinking about the growth of RMTS over the past 20 years. In those early years, Josh was drawn especially to the drum, a common thread that continues to his sessions today. 

The Power of Trust

Although his providers have changed over timeJudy says one thing has remained constant: trust. Through the years, she has watched each music therapist take the time to understand the needs of every individual in the room, including Josh. 

Judy has seen significant growth in Josh’s expressive language since those early days. At the beginning, she remembers being excited simply to hear his voice in sessions, particularly in song. In more recent years, she has seen him express his emotions when his therapist asks how he is doing.

“He is able to express how he is feeling to his therapists, where maybe people weren’t asking him [in other settings], she said. “That is exactly what I wanted him to do with music, I wanted him to be able to express himself more.” 

The Importance of Community

One of the most meaningful experiences for Josh and his family in recent years has been RMTS karaoke nights. Josh is an essential participant, performing with confidence and pride. Judy says that Josh does not typically like the sound of loud applause, “He does not like us watching sports because of the loud applause.” But in the karaoke setting, Judy says, the applause is not overwhelming. 

Reflecting on these moments, Judy shared, “He is proud of himself, because he is accomplishing something. And that is something that we as a family, we really can’t give him.” These performances show how much he has grown, not just in music, but in confidence over the years.

When asked what she would say to another family considering music therapy, Judy explained that there is no single reason to begin. She also noted that progress takes patience. Growth does not happen overnight, but over time she has seen meaningful changes not only in Josh, but in other clients as well. She emphasized the importance of the relationships built through music therapy, both with therapists and with peers. 

When asked how music therapy makes him feel, Josh says, “[Music therapy] makes me feel happy, calm and proud.” From a six-year-old working to develop expressive language to a confident performer taking a bow, Josh’s story reflects the steady impact of music therapy over time.  Stories like his reflect the kind of long-term partnership that has defined our work for the past 20 years. 

 

 

 

 

 

Open Mic Karaoke

Open Mic Karaoke: October 18th , 7PM @ Onset School of Music

Take center stage or be part of the audience singing a variety of songs, performing and dancing to the beat. Our karaoke nights foster creative self-expression where everyone can enjoy rewarding group experiences with meaningful music-making. Whether you love to sing to Taylor Swift or you enjoy listening to friends croon to James Taylor, this inclusive community event is fun for the whole family!

If you haven’t participated in one of our Open Mic Karaoke night’s you have been missing out on a unique experience.  Part of our Project Harmony menu of programs, Open Mic Karaoke is one of our most popular community music-making events. There is still time to register for the last one scheduled this year! RSVP’s are needed by calling Jen at the office, 781-224-3300. $5 suggested at the door. Staff accompanying residents enjoy complimentary admission.

Project Harmony Strikes a Chord

Project Harmony Logo text with three circles with music symbols in shades of green and blueFinding Inspiration in the People We Serve

The vision at Roman Music Therapy Services has always been to create connects and build communities for people of all ages and abilities. We believe that making music is something everyone can do, celebrating potential instead of focusing on limitations, highlighting similarities and not differences.

In an ongoing effort to create programming that is meaningful and brings different communities together, we launched Project Harmony in the fall of 2017. Most of the offerings under Project Harmony’s umbrella were created with adults with disabilities in mind, to help transition folks from sheltered or protected experiences to more integrated interactions within the community.

Project Harmony offers ongoing series and individual events that provide:

  • Meaningful social experiences
  • Opportunities to develop authentic friendships
  • Creative self-expression
  • Interactive learning and growth
  • Sense of belonging with others
  • Enhanced physical health and well-being

Making Music, Transforming Lives

Our goal with Project Harmony is to create spaces in which all people can gather together, meet new friends and experience joy in music making. So far, we have held several Open Mic/Karaoke nights, as well as a weekly chorus. The karaoke nights are full of fun, energetic music makers and audience members, cheering each other on and crooning to a favorite song. We have had parents and families, friends looking for something to do on a night out, adults with disabilities and young children participate.

Finding wholesome, enjoyable events within the community can be a challenge for many people, so the reception of our Friday night Karaoke evenings has been very positive! Our weekly chorus, which meets Monday afternoons, has been an outlet for adults with disabilities in day programs, but anyone is welcome to join. Learning new songs and singing them in the group has been a rewarding and empowering experience! At the culmination of each 10 week series, the chorus members perform a showcase in front of their peers, demonstrating their hard work and dedication!

We have high expectations for Project Harmony, the scope of its offerings as well as the longevity of its impact. In the future, we also hope to roll out drum circles, a digital music series and many other meaningful programs that utilize music to empower all people within the community.

Keep an eye on our website and Facebook page for future events and program announcements!

 

Karaoke: A Night of Stars

by Jennifer Ray

Our First Karaoke Night

On Friday, October 13th, Roman Music Therapy Services invited the community and the agencies that we serve to our first ever Family Karaoke and Open Mic night. The karaoke event was the kick off to a new menu of services we plan to offer, under the name of Project Harmony. When we first started planning the event, we hoped that people would be as excited as we were about it! It would be a fun night, bringing people from different backgrounds and with different abilities together for music making. When Meredith and I talked about it, we thought a turnout of thirty would mean we had a successful night.

Two weeks before the event and we realized we were offering something that the community was getting excited about! Social media started lighting up with groups and individuals tagging each other and referencing the karaoke post on Facebook. Registrations started pouring in online. Group homes started calling with residents RSVP’s. The week of the event we had ninety people registered for a room at Onset School of Music that could hold one hundred.

We had to close registration, a problem we could have never envisioned!

BJ Wass and his crew at Onset (a huge shout out and thank you for all of their assistance!) opened up two rooms for us, an impressive back room with stage, lighting and sound, and another great space where we could have a second sound system running. At many points in the evening, we had two karaoke singers performing at the same time!

I found myself throughout the evening in awe and deeply touched by what I was witnessing.

Seeing this broad representation of the community; families, kids, moms out with their friends, adults with special needs, kids with special needs, all these people having fun and cheering each other on, it was amazing. Thinking about it now, I still get chills. Everyone that night was so accepting, and so supportive of each other, it truly showed the power of music and the power of community.

When folks left that night, there was a smile on every face. We had all been a part of something special!

Special thanks goes to Onset Music School, for helping us with the logistics, as well as to The Optical House, The Bread Shop and Kelly’s Roast Beef, who all donated items for our raffle!

If you had fun at our karaoke event, or weren’t able to participate in this one, please call our office, 781-224-3300, to RSVP for our next Karaoke night at Onset on December 8th!